on yoni’s front wall lining become rougher and more wrinkly like corduroy. You might feel the glands harden beneath the surface somewhere between yoni’s inside end (cervix) and the urethral meatus near her mouth. With a few minutes of continued stroking, your Sacred Gate will swell and get larger and harder much like clio and vajra do.   4. SQUAT If you find you can’t reach deep enough inside or your muscles start protesting, continue on your knees or squatting on your feet. Some experimenting may be necessary to find the most comfortable position for G-Spot access. A curved dildo or vibrator can help get your Sacred Gate aroused for easier palpation, i.e. you can feel it better.   5. PRESSURE Gradually increase the pressure on the rough and hard spots on yoni’s front wall with in and out strokes about once per second. Curl your finger around the pubic bone when fully inserted, making a come hither motion as you pull your hand out.   6. DON’T STOP As your Sacred Gate gets more engorged, you may feel a sense of urgency, the P- Signal — the sensation you have when you’re sure you have to pee. This means you’re really getting there. Remember, you just emptied your bladder. Simply breathe and continue and the feeling will pass.   7. GO FOR IT Use Orgasmic Breathing to intensify and spread sexual energy around your body. Enjoy one or more powerful Sacred Gate Orgasms. Afterwards, instead of stopping abruptly, be sure to cover yoni with your hand as you gradually cool down.   8. TOY Whenever you decide the time is right, switch to using a vibrator or dildo for more stimulation. This is where the Crystal Wand really shines, giving you leverage to apply strong pressure around behind your pubic bone. The Sacred Gate loves pressure.   9. CLOSING When you decide to end your session, slowly relax and slow your movements down. We really like the energy connection of one hand on yoni, one hand on your heart at this point. Simply feel your body, mind, emotions, and spirit. Reflect what was best, what you discovered, what you want more of, what less. Close your Sacred Space with a bow, hug, or silent and a verbal acknowledgment of yourself, giving thanks for the pleasure your body brings you.   PRACTICE: Partner Sacred Gate Orgasm   Purpose To teach your lover to give you a Sacred Gate Orgasm.   1. PREPARE WITH 5 TANTRIC S’s Supplies, Showering, Setting, Stretching, & Settling (see Section 6.6 for details).